Sat Dec 31, 2005 at 10:41 pm |
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I doubt very seriously that I’ll be awake at midnight so here is a short recap of 2005:
January
I was home sick when 2005 arrived and did not enjoy the festivities.
February
Eliana turned 3 on the 20th.
March
I turned 42 on the 14th.
We surprised Carmi’s mother by paying for and, of course, accompanying her on a cruise to the Bahamas. This was a birthday present because she had never been on a cruise before.
April
Carmi turned 42 on the 19th. Is it OK to talk about a woman’s age??
May
I led a team of five to New York City on a mission trip over Memorial Day weekend.
June
I began serving as interim Worship Leader at my home church on the 15th.
Eliana was officially potty-trained on the 24th.
July
I led a team of 16 on a mission trip to the Caribbean island of Antigua from the 16th to the 23rd. This was the first international mission trip that I personally organized.
August
Southern Sanctuary’s final concert was on the 16th at the Citizen’s Center. Laura from Lincolnton sang Alto and I flew Sarah in from Missouri to sing Soprano.
September
We decided on the 16th to begin the process of adopting our second daughter from China.
October
We went to Portrait Innovations in Huntersville for our annual family portraits on the 29th.
The 3rd anniversary of ‘Gotcha Day’ for Eliana was on the 30th.
November
We celebrated our 19th wedding anniversary on the 15th.
We went to the Bi-Lo Center in Greenville, SC on the 18th to see ‘The Wiggles’.
I launched an online project called DadBloggers on the 30th.
December
I led my first cantata on the 18th. The Sanctuary Choir performed ‘An Old Fashioned Christmas’.
Sat Dec 31, 2005 at 3:00 pm |
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Since Eliana comes within about 2 inches of filling up her crib, we decided it was time to move her to a day bed.
Plus she needed more room for her stuffed animals and dolls. What you see in the picture is only a part of her collection.
Plus her little sister will need a bed of her own.
The Empress has actually been sleeping in the day bed for several weeks now but this is a new comforter that Carmi bought her for Christmas. Beneath the comforter is a Dora sheet.

Fri Dec 30, 2005 at 11:45 pm |
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Around mid-afternoon I braved traffic and took a road trip down to Charlotte with a guy from church who plays the drums in our praise band. We walked into a store called
Sam Ash and exited an hour later with a brand spankin' new toy. I purchased for the church a Roland TD-3SV compact electronic drum set. Can't wait to hook this bad boy up tomorrow and give it a workout.
Fri Dec 30, 2005 at 3:59 pm |
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I took the afternoon off so I went by the daycare provider's house, picked Eliana up and we headed over to Gran'mommy's for lunch. Afterwards there were a handful of errands I needed to run.
One particular errand was a stop at the bank. As soon as the Empress hears the work 'bank' she asks,
"Can I have a sucker"? No teller with half a heart can resist such a request from a child so of course she walked away with some candy...and the tongue to prove it.

Fri Dec 30, 2005 at 9:03 am |
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Future destiny of China's once-ambitious family planning policy has become a controversial topic in the academic circle.
At a recent forum on China's population and economy hosted by the Beijing University, the family planning policy was challenged by a number of Chinese scholars and government officials.
An unanimous opinion from the forum showed China should mull its population policy in a more scientific way and seek a proper resolution.
Existing population structure remains a challenging issue.
Since China launched its family planning policy three decades ago, most couples have only one child. Disputes are now raised across the country over the expanding gray generation and skewed gender ratio.
Official statistics showed that China now ranks in the low-birth-rate" club with a population natural growth rate of 0.9 per thousand.
At the same time, people above age 65 make up 7.6 percent of China's total population, a sign of a quicker pace into an aging society.
The gender gap among children born in China has been widened in recent years. Figures show that the average ratio of boys to girls was 117 to 100, exceeding the norm of 105 to 100.
Chinese economists said at the forum that the imbalanced population structure and aging population are likely to be a bottleneck of China's long-term economic growth and bring about a series of economic and social problems.
"With a birth rate drop, China's labor force may stabilize at its height in 2013 and then gradually drop year by year", said Cai Fang, head of the Population and Labor Economy Institute under the Chinese Academy of Social Science (CASS).
Cai said China's abundant labor force once was regarded a "big bonus" to the country's high-speed economic growth, with its contribution to the per capita gross domestic product (GDP) exceeding 25 percent in the past two decades.
"But now the bonus is decreasing," said Cai, adding that the contribution of population to China's GDP will also be reduced as the labor force structure changed.
Proper readjustment is necessary.
Jan. 6, 2005 was marked in China as the "1.3 billion populationday", when its 1.3 billionth citizen was born.
China's one-child policy has successfully reined in its population growth and helped prevent 300 million births -- about the size of the U.S. population -- postponing the arrival of 1.3 billion population by four years.
However, Cai said, it is necessary for China to make a proper readjustment of its current population policy when a reasonable population structure becomes more important than the pressure brought by population growth.
Quite a number proposals to solve population problems were delivered at the forum such as raising the quality of China's labor force to make up the decrease in the quantity of labor force,and postponing the age of retirement.
But most experts focused their attention on whether China should relax its strict family planning policy, changing the current policy of one-child-for-per-couple to the policy of two-children-for-per-couple.
Professor Zeng Yi from the China Economic Study Center of the Beijing University proposed a two-children policy in future at the forum.
Zeng suggested that women should be allowed to have their second babies at an age between 32 and 34.
According to Zeng, his proposal may help slow down China's pace into an aging society and postpone the arrival of a population peak of 1.48 billion people to the year 2038.
Argument: a risk cost of readjustment
Zeng's proposal has aroused objection from a group of Chinese scholars and officials. Renowned Chinese economist Fan Gang said a relaxed family planning policy in China will lead to an additional population of 100 million or 200 million, a big challenge to the employment.
Some other experts said the readjustment will surely bring about an unexpected expansion of population in China, which will terminate the low-birth rate.
Yu Xuejun, director of the Policy & Law Department of the State Family Planning Commission, said at the forum that the readjustment will be based on the cost of increased population, which may result in many new problems including environment, employment and social securities.
The government is greatly concerned with the balance between the advantage and cost of an readjustment to the family planning policy, said Yu, noting that it needs a scientific decision in China on whether the family planning policy should be changed or not.
China launched the family planning policy in late 1970s, which requires one child for one family in cities, and allows two children for one family in rural areas if the first child of the family is a girl. The policy also lays no restriction to the number of children in families of ethnic groups.
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Thu Dec 29, 2005 at 11:05 pm |
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As soon as I brought Eliana home after work, she headed straight for her little yellow table in the living room and began to color. I headed straight for the kitchen and began preparing supper so we could eat when Carmi came home.
Before long, she began to lightly sing and I stopped what I was doing to listen. The tune was unrecognizable at first because her voice was so soft but as I strained to hear through the wall, the words from our Baptist hymnal shortly made sense to me:
Standing, standing
Standing on the promises of God my Savior
Standing, standing
I'm standing on the promises of God
There is something very peaceful and reassuring about hearing Eliana sing, which she does quite frequently. Some would say that singing indicates a happy child. I hope they're right.
Wed Dec 28, 2005 at 9:30 am |
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This picture was taken on November 1, 2002. We had spent some time at the "Noble Cradle" kindergarden in Changsha and Eliana just woke up from a nice nap. Didn't take long for a crowd of children from the kindergarden to gather around her.
