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Eliana invited me to eat lunch with her at school today.
Before I even made it to the booth, she had already invited a classmate to sit with us who had not previously eaten with us before.
I sat across the table from these two and we had just dived into the meal when Eliana’s classmate - with a long drawn face and in a barely-audible voice -says, “My mom doesn’t like my dad anymore.” I was taken aback.
“Your mom doesn’t like your dad anymore?”, I repeated to make sure I had heard correctly.
“No. She likes another man.”
“Do you still live with your mom AND your dad?”
“Yeah. But mom told me I’d be grounded for a week if I ever said anything to dad about this other guy.”
My heart broke for this child who was obviously very sad and caught in the middle of an all-too-common scenario.
Eliana, of course, pipes up and says, “MY mom and dad like each other. They kiss and stuff.”
I’m glad she notices but a little compassion would have been nice.
Who knows ... maybe Eliana knew that little friend needed a lift today ... maybe there was compassion after all. Maybe??
:-/ Ugh. So sad.
It is so sad some of these things that kids have to deal with, things their parents CHOOSE to put them through. It is truly a sad thing when parents CHOOSE to put their children last.
I work at a small private Christian school and even here, some children have some heartbreaking things to say about their homelife. Just a few weeks ago, a third-grade student told my son that her dad gets high. A child’s home should be a safe haven from this world.
It makes me sick to my stomach.
It also causes me to get in ‘the flesh’ and want to strangle some so-called ‘adults’.
Oh, how sad…
That really sucks… kids that age shouldn’t have to know about the garbage adults bring into their lives..





